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This is the page where you can become a part of the site. If you have a cool article, short story or love
poem send it to me and I will post it here. If you want feedback on your submission I can post your e-mail
address as a link next to your work. You will also be able to read some of the questions that people ask me and
see my response. If you happen to read a question and have some insight on it, feel free to send me your input
and I will post it here. I want this site to be as interactive as possible, because this will generate dialogue between
you women folk and us men folk.
Just remember, this site is meant to be fun, so don't go getting all emotional and sensitive on me. I want every visitor
to add something positive and be able to take something positive away from here when they leave. Please read
the Submission guidelines before submitting your work. Thank you.
If
a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making
excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your
intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to
change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before
you find
what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you
deserve
then heck no, you can't "be friends."
A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel
like he is
stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at
yourself
a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid
men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would
he
treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries
in how a guy treats you. If something
bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything.
He will use it against
you later. You cannot change a man's behavior.
Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is
more important than you are...
even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He
is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
If
he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are
NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two way street.
You need time to heal
between relationships...there is nothing cute
about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
You
should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship
consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone
complimentary...not
supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when
a man always know where you
are, and your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
Never move into
his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man.
(Hallelujah, thank you Jesus!)
Don't fully commit to a man
who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others. Share this with other
ladies.....
You'll make someone SMILE, another RETHINK her choices, and
another woman PREPARE. They say it takes a minute
to find a special
person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.
Author Unknown
BY THE WAY, THIS WAS WRITTEN BY A MAN, SO TAKE A HINT...........
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